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Tuesday, August 17, 2010 . 8/17/2010 04:58:00 PM

I thought about all the friendships that were broken over the past few years, and there's this particular friendship that was always teetering on the line. Probably because I'm a girl and he's a guy. 

We were never close back when we first met. Or the few years later. We clicked later in secondary school. How, I forgot. Maybe it's because we have an interest in anime and manga. Or I had a bigger interest in them back then. Or maybe because we had parent problems. Or he had parent problems while I was having parent problems. Either, we had long conversations in chat windows that goes for a few hours. 

He was a best friend and a brother to me. To be honest, I've never had a crush on him, despite the many teasings we got at reunions and when I'm out with friends. But he's still a person dear in my heart. 

How did this friendship dissolve? I really can't remember. But it's probably my fault. Although I can't remember.